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Italy 2003 Day 16 Civita
James writes:

Today is a surprising day....the wedding of the trees ceremony is certainly unique and we get a birds-eye view of the festivities. And we get to meet Msgr. Patrick Kilgareff, the head of the English College in Rome, who is a thoroughly charming, witty, well read, funny and approachable man. We have plenty of opportunity to visit with him during the day and hope to see him again when we return to Rome.

Jonathan writes:

Today we have been invited to a local festival in a nearby town. One of my father's colleagues is an ex-pat American author named Mary Jane.
She's lived in Italy for 30 years and in the town of Vetralla for a decade. They have been corresponding over email for a few months and we have scheduled to tag along, as her guests, to the several century old traditional Sposalizio dell'Albero--The Wedding of the Trees, when the town celebrates the Papal granting of ownership of the forests to the townspeople in 1432. The public ownership of lands was very unusual and gave the people the rights to collect firewood annually. This particular Pope was Venetian and so the tradition, which mirrors the Venetian Wedding to the Sea, became a big celebration. It takes place on the top of a hill, in the middle of a forest,. on the grounds of a monastery and church and isn't open to the public, only to the residents.

Mary Jane has invited a guest from Rome as well. Monsignor Kilgarreff is English and the head of a Catholic school for priests. There are several (very confusing to me) connections between the town and England and they are trying to renew the connections, so he is here as a dignitary for the celebration. We pick up another guest, an American, David Morton on the way. He is staying in Vetralla, researching walking the Roman roads in this area. We pick him up on the side of the superstrada about 4 km outside of Civita (it's near where he's staying and he doesn't have a car to get to Vetralla.) and then he leads us to the Vetralla train station where we meet Mary Jane, her boyfriend Fulvio (who's from the town), and meet the Monsignor's train. Then it's up into the woods.

the whole town is out for the parade, standing on the side of the road and in the piazza. But we pass all that and go up to the church. A stage and stands are setup and there are two huge old oak trees, decked out with flowers and garlands, and a huge white wedding veil strung above the stage. We sit around and wait as people arrive. There are tons of school kids, lots of townspeople and then a bunch of dignitaries from out of town. Then mom and dad get taken with the Monsignor and Mary Jane to sir up on the stage in the main reviewing stand...they are part of the special dignatories! Michael, david, Fulvio and I head out to sit with the kids. Well we sit..the kids are on a field trip away from school, so they run around and act like teenagers. Finally the parade makes it all the way up the hill. First is the town band, then come a bunch of kids with Italian, EU, and Peace flags. Then come townspeople dressed in medieval costume, the flag throwers, the drummers, then come the Venetians in costume, then come the horsemen (apparently the area is famous for it's riders), then comes kids dressed as flower girls and little boys in traditional suits, then the local maidens (Bridesmaids?), then more people dressed up, then several horse drawn carriages with more people in fancy dress. each group comes up the hill, circles the staging area, past the crowds and stops in front of the stage to pay their respects.

It is quite a show. The kids in the stands, who have not shut up for the hour leading up to the parade, go crazy when their friends go by, waving and yelling. Fulvio, who used to organize the event is a litle miffed at the lack of punctuality in the parade and the general chaos, and especially by the lack of decorum by the kids. So we get up during the speeches and walk around. I head for the porchetta truck (we are in Lazio after all), but sadly they are all out of porchetta. Luckily a nice guy points out that they are giving away free sandwiches behind the stage! Part of the deal of the ceremony is free lunch for everyone...so I get a prosciutto panino. When I come back, the main part of the ceremony is going on. Each of the dignatories signs the proclamation for the day and the key to the church (where the forest is) is given back to the head monk, because techinically the town owns the land that the church is on. I'm not sure if I got everything right...it was all in italian and kind of confusing. The mayor gives a speech, the deputy mayor of Venice gives a speech, various other foks give speeches and then the wedding is complete.

There is one more important part of an Italian wedding....the meal. We get invited to come to the lunch...First there is a snack in teh church...pastries, sandwiches, etc. then we head into town to a restaurant called L'Oliveto. It's in the middle of an olive orchard, high up on a hill. The luncheon is for about 40 people, the dignitaries, the out of town guests, the Venetian recreators, and us....We start with antipasto...sliced prosciutto, salumi, cheese and olives. then there is a carciofi crostini, then risotto with porcini mushrooms, then more of the priest strangler's pasta in a tomato sauce, then rabbit with potatoes, then salad, then fresh strawberries with a lemon sauce....There's also wine...lots of wine...Lunch is now 4 hours old. everything was delicious, especially the pasta and risotto. But we are exhausted. then they bring out the vin santo and the grappa and the limoncello. I give up...I can't have anymore. Finally the party starts to break up. We thanks everyone and head out. A scenic drive home and we are back at the hotel by about 6 PM (we left at 9 AM) and exhausted.
there shall be no dinner tonight. After chilling out for a couple of hours we go down to the patio to play some scrabble. Again MIchael kicks mom and my butts. To bed.

Tomorrow: sightseeing with Mary Jane and Fulvio...and Marueen and Franco come to visit from Rome.
Also two corrections: Monsignor Patrick Kilgarriff and it was a pork secondi not rabbit...

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